Thursday, November 1, 2012
Mom of 3!
I love being a mom of 3! Things have been going really well, amazingly. I didn't get postpartum depression this time and barely even had any baby blues. Sheridan is a super-easy baby. She sleeps in the car. She has slept about 10 hours straight the past three nights. She spits up a lot, but it doesn't seem to bother her. She smiled at me so much today. She has the sweetest coo! Salem's potty training is getting back on track. She doesn't fight me every single time I put her on the potty anymore. Adora has taken to being a big sister again so wonderfully. She loves to hold Sheridan, which is great when I need to do things like put Salem to bed when Sheridan is fussing. She gives Sheridan her paci in the car. She has only once gotten frustrated with her. She always talks about how cute Sheridan is and how sweet her sounds are. I am so blessed to have this family!
Wednesday, October 10, 2012
Cross Country Race
Sept. 24, we went to Oak Park to take a walk. We noticed that there were millions (almost) of kids there. There is apparently a cross country race there every Monday for five weeks. Any kids, even pre-k, can run it. Wow! How did I not know that? Anyway, Adora was really disappointed that she didn't get to run that week, so she actually jumped in mid-way with the elementary school kids. We went to the next race on the 1st, and she competed with the pre-school kids. She got 13th for the girls with a time of 8:36.98 on a half mile. She raced again this past Monday and was much, much faster (Jake was around this time, so he and Salem chased her). I will find out her time in the next couple of weeks. That was the last race. Just in time, too. It started snowing yesterday.
Thursday, August 30, 2012
Photo Book
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Saturday, August 18, 2012
Washington, D. C.
Jake and I went to Washington, D. C. about a month ago for him to interview for a job as a Presidential Advance Agent. He was chosen! It means he will go on several trips throughout the year in advance of the President, mostly, and set up the airport for his arrival. Anyway, I went to D. C. along with him to take advantage of a semi-babymoon and because I figure if I hadn't been in my first 30 years, I probably wouldn't get another opportunity to go in my second 30 years, and I've always wanted to go, so. . . it was time!
This is at dinner with some of the people who work with the President's Advance Agents program and the new hirees.
We ate at a Chinese restaurant in Chinatown the first evening we were there. It was cool how they served hot tea on every table. Chinese people don't believe in mixing cold drinks with hot food. (We also got ice water, though.) Anyway, here is a sampling of the menu. Yum!
This was the best thing at the restaurant--a shrimp roll, or something like that.
We were trying to get a self-portrait in front of the Capitol building.
My handsome guy!
My sister keeps complaining that she doesn't realize that I am having a baby soon because she hasn't seen any pregnant pictures of me, so here you go, Laura--I am just a month further along now!
Some kind Asian tourist took this picture of us. I was surprised how many Asian tourists were touring our capitol--I don't know if I have that much interest in the capitols of other countries.
This is at the FDR memorial. I have mostly pictures of things and not pictures of Jake and me because I did so much sightseeing along while he was at work, but after a girl in a wheelchair asked me to take her picture with this statue of FDR in his wheelchair, she offered to take mine, too, so I happily agreed :)
This is Jake at the Library of Congress. I thought it wasn't that interesting, but he wished we'd had more than an hour to spend in there.
This is a replica of the annointing stone that was used to annoint Jesus's body prior to his entombment. Behind me is a replica of his tomb. In real life, the annointing stone was very close to the cross and not so close to the tomb (I think they said). It was at a cool Franciscan monastery!
This is at dinner with some of the people who work with the President's Advance Agents program and the new hirees.
Why did this one upload way down here? It is from the Chinese restaurant on the first evening. Jake is drinking his hot tea.
Friday, August 17, 2012
Sweet Eyes vs. Spastic Eyes
Friday, July 27, 2012
Thursday, June 7, 2012
Yellowstone falling into place!
I have wanted to go to Yellowstone for a long time, and we are finally taking that opportunity! We are leaving later this month to go to a dinosaur museum in Glendive and then stay overnight in Miles City. I am excited because I booked the hotel tonight (with a free breakfast and the all-important POOL) at 15% off because I searched for a deal on the hotel's website. (BTW, why are hotels in the middle-of-nowhere-Montana so dang expensive?! Wait, it's probably the oil boom. Dang oil! We should at least get cheap gas out of that, right?) The next day, we will head to Nye, MT to meet up with 13 other Hostetlers on Kristen's land (too bad she and her hubby won't be there--they are fighting fires in Alaska). Kristen & John live in a camper on their land and just finished building a yert that they will be moving into this winter. I think it's funny that they snowbird to Montana for the winters, but hey, what do I know about living in Alaska?
The following day, we will head into Yellowstone to stay at our awesome vacation rental!
http://www.brooktroutinn.com/brooktrouthome.html
It sleeps 18 in 6 bedrooms and is 3450 sq. ft. I am super pumped to get together and see everyone. It's been since October--I just wish Kristen could make it, too! We will spend the days at Yellowstone seeing the sights and the evenings here hanging out together for some family QT. After that, we will probably go to Wyoming for a few days before heading back to Minot. This is my last trip before the baby, by the way!
Speaking of the baby, she is doing great! She was head down at my appointment last week, although I assume she can still easily move around. She does move a lot, but I mostly notice it when I'm still, which isn't often. A couple of times, Salem has patted my belly and said, "Bebe!", and Adora loves to feel her move. We are working on picking out a name, but haven't found the one yet. I took my glucose test the other day to screen for gestational diabetes, and I didn't get a call saying I needed to take another test, so I assume I passed that.
The basement is coming along well. The electrical inspection today went well--Jake has to fix a couple of things, but it doesn't sound like a really big deal. Plumbing is going ok. It is actually really frustrating sometimes, but it is getting done, which is the main thing. We still need to run cable and insulate and then, hopefully, Lutheran Disaster Response will come over to help hang sheetrock. Baby will be born in 3 months, and I feel like we're making good progress! Almost every night, Jake and I are down there working after the kids go to sleep. It's good to see it paying off.
Kristen's yert in Nye, MT
The following day, we will head into Yellowstone to stay at our awesome vacation rental!
http://www.brooktroutinn.com/brooktrouthome.html
It sleeps 18 in 6 bedrooms and is 3450 sq. ft. I am super pumped to get together and see everyone. It's been since October--I just wish Kristen could make it, too! We will spend the days at Yellowstone seeing the sights and the evenings here hanging out together for some family QT. After that, we will probably go to Wyoming for a few days before heading back to Minot. This is my last trip before the baby, by the way!
Speaking of the baby, she is doing great! She was head down at my appointment last week, although I assume she can still easily move around. She does move a lot, but I mostly notice it when I'm still, which isn't often. A couple of times, Salem has patted my belly and said, "Bebe!", and Adora loves to feel her move. We are working on picking out a name, but haven't found the one yet. I took my glucose test the other day to screen for gestational diabetes, and I didn't get a call saying I needed to take another test, so I assume I passed that.
The basement is coming along well. The electrical inspection today went well--Jake has to fix a couple of things, but it doesn't sound like a really big deal. Plumbing is going ok. It is actually really frustrating sometimes, but it is getting done, which is the main thing. We still need to run cable and insulate and then, hopefully, Lutheran Disaster Response will come over to help hang sheetrock. Baby will be born in 3 months, and I feel like we're making good progress! Almost every night, Jake and I are down there working after the kids go to sleep. It's good to see it paying off.
Daddy Daughter Dance
Jake took Adora to the Daddy Daughter Dance out at the base tonight (Adora laughed so hard when I called it the Father Daughter Dance). She had a great time. They decorated balloons and wands, got tiaras to wear, had a big overstuffed chair to take professional pictures in, and danced the night away. Oh yeah, and they had rolls, mac & cheese, and chicken fingers for dinner. Plus TWO different kinds of cookies for dessert.
Adora wanted this headband and all these clips in her hair.
Here she is posing before the dance in her beautiful dress.
Look at my big skirt!
Daddy on just an hour and a half of sleep. He is working 10:30 p. m.-11:00 a. m. with no sleep. He came home and had to finish the electrical because we had an inspection on it today. He got to sleep an hour and a half before the dance and now he is sleeping another hour before he has to go back to work.
Sweet kiss!
Adora at the dance with the wand she made and the tiara and corsage they gave her.
Her favorite part was the crafts :)
Adora wanted this headband and all these clips in her hair.
Here she is posing before the dance in her beautiful dress.
Look at my big skirt!
Daddy on just an hour and a half of sleep. He is working 10:30 p. m.-11:00 a. m. with no sleep. He came home and had to finish the electrical because we had an inspection on it today. He got to sleep an hour and a half before the dance and now he is sleeping another hour before he has to go back to work.
Sweet kiss!
Adora at the dance with the wand she made and the tiara and corsage they gave her.
Her favorite part was the crafts :)
Being silly with Daddy at the dance!
Jake told me that at some point, she was spinning and spinning and crashed into the tables :) For some reason, blogger won't let me upload a video of them dancing.
Tuesday, May 22, 2012
Adora's 4-year checkup
I am setting an alarm when I nap during the day because I am so stressed out with our house that I need to spend some of nap time organizing stuff or I will go crazy. Literally! So I have been waking up while the kids are napping or having quiet time to go through some papers and sorting them and filing them and that kind of stuff. I ran across the paperwork from Adora's 4-year checkup. I wanted to record her weight and height so I can put it in her 4-year photobook, whenever I get around to doing THAT (it'd better be before the baby's born!). Anyway, she was 33 lbs. and 39.75" tall. The kids are both doing great! Salem is recovering from a stomach virus. She got a molar, too, so now she has five teeth on top and two on bottom.
Thursday, April 26, 2012
Dentist
The girls both had dentist appointments today, and they both did great. Adora even got x-rays! Weird. I was unprepared for that. I hate exposing her to radiation--did she really need it? I don't know. It showed her front top four adult teeth forming over her baby teeth. Adult teeth are twice as big as baby teeth! So the dentist said all her spaces are good :) The two adult teeth on the sides are forming sideways, but he said they should straighten out as her mouth grows and creates more room. She has no cavities and has 100% overbite. It may be causing her bottom teeth to bump against the roof of her mouth (or something) and chip. If it does it with her adult teeth, she will probably have to go to the orthodontist when she is 8 or 9. Salem did great, with her six teeth. Her molars are really close to coming in, as are the two teeth just on the outside of the bottom middle. She also has no cavities. Her thumb sucking has caused mild damage to her top teeth, pulling them out a little. The dentist said not to try to stop her thumb sucking until she is about 3, though. He also said that once some kids with severe damage stop sucking their thumbs around age 3, their mouths go back to normal in about six months! So that is cool. They will both be in the newspaper for the no cavity club. I love this dentist way better than the Kool Smiles dentist because I got way more information and they had different flavors of flouride (which they didn't call candy, like they do at KS), so Adora didn't hate the flouride so much.
Update on Salem's sleeping--she is doing much better. If she had her own room, I think she would sleep through the night most of the time. As it is, Adora wakes her up when she goes to bed about 50-75% of the time. Salem still wakes up around 5:00 sometimes and needs someone to go in and hold her a minute before she goes back to sleep. That is a pain, but not nearly as bad as it used to be. It mostly is bad when she wakes up Adora before 6:00 because then I have two cranky kids for the morning. I feel a lot better now that Salem is sleeping better, but I still enjoy having an afternoon nap.
Lutheran Disaster Relief called me Tuesday morning to let me know that a crew was on their way! I had spoken to someone from LDR the day before who told me that they had a crew who could probalby install our kitchen floor this week, so once I got the call, we rushed to get our floor completely cleaned and prepped for the crew. When they got here, though, they told us they were going to frame up our basement! Even better! After three days of work, the framing down there is 80% complete. What a huge relief! It looks so great. Our room is going to be so much bigger, and we are going to have a huge closet where Adora's old room was. The bathroom will also be bigger, and Jake thinks we can even fit a tub in there. The family room was once two rooms and will now be one--much better because you couldn't really do anything with the two little rooms before. I am also excited to soon have an enclosed laundry room, because the washer and dryer are so loud echoing in that huge basement. The girls and I are going to visit their new cousins tomorrow, so Jake will have another week where we are gone, and I hope that he can get lots done while we are gone. The volunteers that were here are going back home to Michigan tomorrow, but I hope that LDR will send us another crew. Who knows. They even have a master electrician to wire, but I don't know how far down the list we are for that. Jake is planning on just getting his self-wiring permit and starting it himself because we can't just wait around for the help when we have a baby coming in four-and-a-half months.
I think the kids are asleep, and I need to finish packing for our trip!
Update on Salem's sleeping--she is doing much better. If she had her own room, I think she would sleep through the night most of the time. As it is, Adora wakes her up when she goes to bed about 50-75% of the time. Salem still wakes up around 5:00 sometimes and needs someone to go in and hold her a minute before she goes back to sleep. That is a pain, but not nearly as bad as it used to be. It mostly is bad when she wakes up Adora before 6:00 because then I have two cranky kids for the morning. I feel a lot better now that Salem is sleeping better, but I still enjoy having an afternoon nap.
Lutheran Disaster Relief called me Tuesday morning to let me know that a crew was on their way! I had spoken to someone from LDR the day before who told me that they had a crew who could probalby install our kitchen floor this week, so once I got the call, we rushed to get our floor completely cleaned and prepped for the crew. When they got here, though, they told us they were going to frame up our basement! Even better! After three days of work, the framing down there is 80% complete. What a huge relief! It looks so great. Our room is going to be so much bigger, and we are going to have a huge closet where Adora's old room was. The bathroom will also be bigger, and Jake thinks we can even fit a tub in there. The family room was once two rooms and will now be one--much better because you couldn't really do anything with the two little rooms before. I am also excited to soon have an enclosed laundry room, because the washer and dryer are so loud echoing in that huge basement. The girls and I are going to visit their new cousins tomorrow, so Jake will have another week where we are gone, and I hope that he can get lots done while we are gone. The volunteers that were here are going back home to Michigan tomorrow, but I hope that LDR will send us another crew. Who knows. They even have a master electrician to wire, but I don't know how far down the list we are for that. Jake is planning on just getting his self-wiring permit and starting it himself because we can't just wait around for the help when we have a baby coming in four-and-a-half months.
I think the kids are asleep, and I need to finish packing for our trip!
Thursday, April 19, 2012
New Baby Girl!
Sucking her left thumb! The weird-looking stuff by her head is uterus or placenta or something like that. I probably won't comment a whole lot on these because they are mostly labeled.
You can see her left eye lens in this photo!


You can faintly see her left hand up by her face in this one, close to her nose.
I am so excited to have a new baby girl on the way! Girls are awesome. I don't really know what I'd do with a boy, although I'm sure I'd figure it out. I will get to reuse all our girl stuff, which is neat, because it's so fun to see Salem in an outfit that I remember Adora wearing. The only pitfall is trying to pick out another girl name since my favorite two are already taken :) Anyway, my ultrasound was really cool. They clicked on the 3D so we could see really neat pictures and videos of baby girl doing cool things like sucking her thumb and twirling her hair (well, probably not really twirling her hair, but her right hand was up by her head just like Salem does when she sucks her left thumb!). So now, you get to see them, too :)
This baby already weighs 10 oz. and measured 19 weeks and 3 days (I was 20 weeks and 3 days at my ultrasound). That, to me, puts her right on par to be born about a week late--like my other two! So I anticipate a birthday of around 09/10/12!
Easter Dresses
Kids didn't wear their Easter dresses on Easter Sunday because they were sick. Neither went to church anyway--Jake and I split up. He went to the vigil Saturday night, and I went Sunday morning. Anyway, they did wear them this last Sunday, and we got pictures and videos.
Today, Adora was in the bathroom. She sometimes gets really into teaching Salem how to do things. So Salem was in there helping out. Adora was trying to get Salem to give her some toilet paper. Long story short, next thing I know, I hear Adora saying, "Ok, Salem, now come wipe my bottom!" I obviously had to intervene so Salem didn't get messy, ha!
We had a fun day today. I bought a Minot Area coupon book thing a couple of weeks ago and used four coupons from it today, haha. There are lots that you can use monthly, and I wanted to get the April ones checked off before we leave for our trip! So I ran into the grocery store to get a free muffin (and picked up two pounds of strawberries b/c they were on sale). Then, we went to Tutti Fruitti, a frozen yogurt place where you get to pick your flavor of yogurt and then pile on whatever toppings you want (you pay by the ounce). I had a buy one get one free there. Then, we went to the bowling alley, where I had a free game of bowling (and I paid for shoes for me and Adora and her game of bowling). After that, we stopped by the gas station to pick up a free 20-oz. Coke for Jake. It all cost me about $17, which saved us about $11. Plus, we got out of the house on a rainy day and did some fun stuff. After all of that, we went to church and played in the playroom before mass. The bishop was here to do a mass for the flood survivors and volunteers. They had a free pizza dinner after church! So it was a fun, busy afternoon. Jake is flying his pre-checkride, so he is still not home, so it helped fill up the time.
Here is a video of the kids dancing with their dresses on. We have a longer, better one, but it takes too long to upload. Adora's tag is still on her cardigan because I had to figure out if she liked how the sweater felt before I took it off.Saturday, April 7, 2012
Eli, Eli
Jake often tells me certain things I should post on the blog. I think I have followed his advice once. The main problem is that I just don't post often enough, and when I do, I don't think to post what he wanted me to post. He just told me to post this, though, and since he left for church and both kids are asleep, I am going to do it.
The other night, he was reading Adora the Bible before bed, as we usually do. She has a really great children's Bible that she got for her birthday. Anyway, he was reading her, "My God, my God, why hast though forsaken me?" and Adora said, "Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani!" Jake just about had a heart attack because she was apparently translating English into Syro-Chaldaic. He recovered enough to ask her how she knew that, and she reminded him of the Tajci concert he took her to last Sunday when they had said the phrase in English AND Syro-Chaldaic. She is smart, but not that smart, apparently :)
The other night, he was reading Adora the Bible before bed, as we usually do. She has a really great children's Bible that she got for her birthday. Anyway, he was reading her, "My God, my God, why hast though forsaken me?" and Adora said, "Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani!" Jake just about had a heart attack because she was apparently translating English into Syro-Chaldaic. He recovered enough to ask her how she knew that, and she reminded him of the Tajci concert he took her to last Sunday when they had said the phrase in English AND Syro-Chaldaic. She is smart, but not that smart, apparently :)
Wednesday, April 4, 2012
Bismarck Zoo--That's How God Made Them
Hair Donation
I am donating my hair again. I actually got it cut in January but haven't sent it in yet. I am getting it together today so Jake can take it to the post office tomorrow, along with a couple of other packages and even some letters since we are completely out of stamps. I am donating to Pantene Beautiful Lengths instead of Locks of Love because they provide wigs for free to cancer patients (LoL relies on a sliding pay scale). I asked for 8" cut off, but in typical hair-donation fashion, they cut an extra 2.5" just for kicks. So this is the shortest my hair has been in awhile. I just took this picture tonight, so it has grown out a little bit, but I also got another 1/2" cut off last week when Adora & I went to get hair cuts (side note: I really miss Kids Hair Safari from Wichita Falls. There is no kids' hair cutting place here.)
Confession
I have a confession to make. I use my $72/month YMCA membership mostly to be able to take a shower. Yes, I pay $72/month (plus $4.50 childcare each time I go!) to be able to take a shower. I somehow haven't mastered the art of showering during the day with the kids home. When I shower at home, it is usually after they go to bed, which is scary because the shower backs up to their bedroom, and then I have wet hair all night, too. In order to justify the shower at the Y, though, I force myself to workout before. The class that I usually go to is from 9:15-10:30, but I always cut out at 10:15. I figure an hour of cardio is enough for a pregnant lady (I take a bathroom break mid-way through, too, haha), and I want to make sure I have enough time to get my shower in before I have to pick up the kids from the childcare (they can only be in there 2 hours), plus, if I stay the whole time, they get REALLY HUNGRY and whine for lunch when I pick them up. I have a feeling that as this pregnancy progresses, I might start using my membership mostly for the hot tub and the shower--maybe I will skip the working out part.
Another great thing about our super-expensive gym membership is that you get discounts on classes and camps for the kids. I say this is good, but I haven't ever used this benefit. I tried to sign up Adora for swim lessons, but although they supposedly have signups for 5 days or so, they apparently fill up within the first hour. I think there is only one more session before the summer (and I'm not sure they have swim classes in the summer--it's an indoor pool), and I don't know if we'll get her in. I feel kind of bad about it since Jake really wanted her to take swim lessons over the winter (oops) to keep up her swimming skills so she will really improve in the summer time. I don't know that she will really swim any more here in the summer than in the winter, though. There is no spray park like there is in Wichita Falls. The lake is ice cold (actually, she probably wouldn't care about that) and is like 30 or 45 minutes away. They also have an Itty Bitty Sports class that sounds pretty cute. It's for five weeks, and they do a different sport each time to introduce the kids to different sports. I have a friend whose kid is in it, and she said it's neat to see which sports her kid likes and which she doesn't. That sounds great, rather than committing to a sport for a season only to find out your kid hates it. Anyway, we are going to be gone for a week of the session, so I am debating on whether or not to put Adora in it. I will probably do it, though, since I don't know that she will get another chance to do it since she starts preschool (again) in the fall. The camps are a week long, and Adora wants to do the Summer Fun camp. It is in the last part of July and the first part of August. I know she will love it, but I bet she will also get exhausted since it goes until 2 p. m.
I am also planning on taking Adora to a figure skating show. I am really excited about it! Adora told me she is going to be really mad at the end when she doesn't get to go ice skate. She can have such an attitude! I told her that maybe I wouldn't take her then because I am afraid she is going to throw a fit. So we will have to see how this plays out. It helps her to talk in advance about what my expectations of her are and to pose scenarios to get her to plan her behavior. For example:
Me: Adora, I don't know if we will go to this ice skating show because I think you might throw a fit afterward.
Adora: I won't throw a fit!
Me: Even if you feel angry that you don't get to ice skate?
Adora: I will be very good even if I don't get to ice skate.
Then, I remind her of it when the event is about to occur, and she usually does a pretty good job of following through with my expection. This technique requires me to think through every situation and potential emotion in advance, though, which I don't always get to do. She has gotten much better with her behavior since she turned four, though. Her twos were not so terrible, but the threes were extremely challenging. I'm glad she's four now.
Another great thing about our super-expensive gym membership is that you get discounts on classes and camps for the kids. I say this is good, but I haven't ever used this benefit. I tried to sign up Adora for swim lessons, but although they supposedly have signups for 5 days or so, they apparently fill up within the first hour. I think there is only one more session before the summer (and I'm not sure they have swim classes in the summer--it's an indoor pool), and I don't know if we'll get her in. I feel kind of bad about it since Jake really wanted her to take swim lessons over the winter (oops) to keep up her swimming skills so she will really improve in the summer time. I don't know that she will really swim any more here in the summer than in the winter, though. There is no spray park like there is in Wichita Falls. The lake is ice cold (actually, she probably wouldn't care about that) and is like 30 or 45 minutes away. They also have an Itty Bitty Sports class that sounds pretty cute. It's for five weeks, and they do a different sport each time to introduce the kids to different sports. I have a friend whose kid is in it, and she said it's neat to see which sports her kid likes and which she doesn't. That sounds great, rather than committing to a sport for a season only to find out your kid hates it. Anyway, we are going to be gone for a week of the session, so I am debating on whether or not to put Adora in it. I will probably do it, though, since I don't know that she will get another chance to do it since she starts preschool (again) in the fall. The camps are a week long, and Adora wants to do the Summer Fun camp. It is in the last part of July and the first part of August. I know she will love it, but I bet she will also get exhausted since it goes until 2 p. m.
I am also planning on taking Adora to a figure skating show. I am really excited about it! Adora told me she is going to be really mad at the end when she doesn't get to go ice skate. She can have such an attitude! I told her that maybe I wouldn't take her then because I am afraid she is going to throw a fit. So we will have to see how this plays out. It helps her to talk in advance about what my expectations of her are and to pose scenarios to get her to plan her behavior. For example:
Me: Adora, I don't know if we will go to this ice skating show because I think you might throw a fit afterward.
Adora: I won't throw a fit!
Me: Even if you feel angry that you don't get to ice skate?
Adora: I will be very good even if I don't get to ice skate.
Then, I remind her of it when the event is about to occur, and she usually does a pretty good job of following through with my expection. This technique requires me to think through every situation and potential emotion in advance, though, which I don't always get to do. She has gotten much better with her behavior since she turned four, though. Her twos were not so terrible, but the threes were extremely challenging. I'm glad she's four now.
Wednesday, March 28, 2012
Pictures from Oct./Nov., our time at Barksdale & Baton Rouge
Monday, March 26, 2012
Trips planned!
I am so excited! I finally have two trips planned that have been stressing me out. Now, what will I do with my evenings? The first trip coming up is to Houston and Baton Rouge in just a month! The kids and I are actually flying into Houston to visit with the new, expanded Bennett family. I am really excited. It's good for us to fly into Houston because it saves us quite a drive there, from Baton Rouge. We will drive back to BR, but at least we only have to go one way. Then, we will go to BR to meet Liam, my sister's new baby! The kids will play, we will hit up the zoo (we bought a membership in hopes that the zoo here will open this summer--it is iffy since the flood devastated it, but the BR Zoo is a reciprocal zoo, so it's free for us to go there, too), and I will hopefully get in lots of baby-holding. Then, in three months, we are doing the long drive to Yellowstone! This is a huge Hostetler trip. All of Jake's bros & sisters except one are going to be able to make it out. Two of his siblings also have families, and we will all be with his mom and dad in a house that sleeps 18! Good thing since there will be 17 of us! I am really excited to see everyone AND to see Yellowstone. And on the way back, we will spend a night or two "camping" on Jake's sister's land in Montana. Hopefully, I will get to sleep on the bed in the camper since I will be, oh, 7 months pregnant.
Thursday, March 22, 2012
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
New swing in backyard
Here is our new swing in our backyard. We can easily take the kiddo swing down and hang our two-person "porch" swing, too. It's a lot of fun for everyone :)
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Thankful
Ok, I was in a really bad mood that last post because Salem was waking up AGAIN and I am afraid to go to bed because Adora is in my room and I have to transfer her to her room, risking waking both of them up again. Jake is flying right now, so I have to do it by myself.
These are the things that I have to be thankful for, though:
My kids' health--despite minor illnesses, my kids are both healthy--I can't say the same for everyone I know
Our finances--I hate that our home in WF hasn't sold yet, but I am joyful that we are able to pay for both of our homes and even to fix the flood damage in this home and even still be able to consider things like trips to Baton Rouge, Houston, and Yellowstone, and even the super-expensive YMCA membership (did I mention how expensive it is? It is a non-profit! It is $72/month plus $4.50 each time I take the kids to the childcare!)
Our new baby on the way--I am so excited to get to know this new little person. Adora is so sweet and she wants to learn about the new baby each day. He or she is the size of an apple and weighs 2.5 oz right now.
The weather--I didn't realize how hard the winter was here until it warmed up this weekend and we could actually go outside! It was in the 60s today, and it was beautiful. We went for a walk in Oak Park, I pulled Salem in the wagon and Adora roller skated around our street, we went for a walk in our neighborhood, and I pushed the kids on the swings--all this afternoon! Plus, I got to cook dinner while the kids played together outside almost the whole time, 'til Salem started eating rocks. And I got to turn the heater off for the first time since we moved here! It was all glorious.
A newly-born nephew and two nieces on the way very soon!
People who love me
I need to go to bed, but I could go on if I wanted to. Good night!
These are the things that I have to be thankful for, though:
My kids' health--despite minor illnesses, my kids are both healthy--I can't say the same for everyone I know
Our finances--I hate that our home in WF hasn't sold yet, but I am joyful that we are able to pay for both of our homes and even to fix the flood damage in this home and even still be able to consider things like trips to Baton Rouge, Houston, and Yellowstone, and even the super-expensive YMCA membership (did I mention how expensive it is? It is a non-profit! It is $72/month plus $4.50 each time I take the kids to the childcare!)
Our new baby on the way--I am so excited to get to know this new little person. Adora is so sweet and she wants to learn about the new baby each day. He or she is the size of an apple and weighs 2.5 oz right now.
The weather--I didn't realize how hard the winter was here until it warmed up this weekend and we could actually go outside! It was in the 60s today, and it was beautiful. We went for a walk in Oak Park, I pulled Salem in the wagon and Adora roller skated around our street, we went for a walk in our neighborhood, and I pushed the kids on the swings--all this afternoon! Plus, I got to cook dinner while the kids played together outside almost the whole time, 'til Salem started eating rocks. And I got to turn the heater off for the first time since we moved here! It was all glorious.
A newly-born nephew and two nieces on the way very soon!
People who love me
I need to go to bed, but I could go on if I wanted to. Good night!
No sleep
My children hate to sleep. 95% of the reason why I am so exhausted is that I haven't slept through the night in a very long time. The other 5% is that I am pregnant and breastfeeding. The number one thing I am nervous about with the new baby coming is my sleep.
Salem used to be a good sleeper. She seemed programmed to sleep a lot at night almost ever since she was born, and even better after she was a couple of months old. She wanted to sleep in until about 9 every morning. Unfortunately, Adora would wake up at about 7 and come into our room, and Salem would wake up. That wasn't that big of a deal in retrospect, at least compared to what we have gone through since then. The really big deal came when we moved. Being homeless for over three months, moving from place to place, sharing rooms with multiple people, etc. really killed her sleep habits. She started waking up several times at night and refusing to go back to sleep without being nursed. For the sake of the other people in the room, I had to give in and do that. Then, once we got to Minot, she just started waking up earlier and earlier. She now permanently shares a room with Salem. That's what living in an essentially 2-BR house will get you. It is impossible to sleep train her without waking up Adora. We have tried to put Adora in our room, but our walls are not insulated, we don't even have closet doors, and our room is RIGHT NEXT to Adora and Salem's. Salem now wakes up between 4:30 and 5:30 each morning and sometimes dozes for a little while before Adora wakes up around 6:30. Sometimes. We do keep wanting to try to sleep train again, putting Adora on the floor in our room for a week or so, but Salem has basically been sick and/or teething for the past 2 months, so we haven't even had a chance to do that.
Daylight savings time was a couple of days ago, right? I usually start prepping the kids about a week in advance to adjust to the time change. I will change their sleep times and mealtimes 10 minutes a day or so until they are more easily adjusted to the new time. It totally snuck up on me this time, though. I really thought it was the following weekend! So we had 0 days of prepping them to adjust to the new time. The silver lining in this was that we assumed that Salem would sleep 'til maybe 6:30 or so. She had been waking up at 5:30, so 6:30 seemed natural. Salem is apparently smarter than Daylight Savings, though. She had it all figured out. She woke up at 5:00 Sunday morning. That's right, 4:00 "real" time.
Thank goodness that I have a wonderful husband who, about 86% of the time, gets up with Salem when she wakes up in the morning, takes her to the couch to lay with her (because we have no other bed set up), and deals with her until Adora wakes up, sometimes even longer. Unfortunately, I still get woken up when she wakes up and sometimes can't go back to sleep because she is so noisy in the living room with him. Even when I can go back to sleep, I frequently wake up multiple times from her noises.
Tonight, she went to sleep at 7:10 and has woken up twice since then. It's 9:30. I had to put Adora to sleep in my bed because Salem was awake, and neither of them would've been able to go to sleep in the room together. Sometimes I feel like I am going to be one of those tortured people who dies from lack of sleep. What a horrible way to go.
Salem used to be a good sleeper. She seemed programmed to sleep a lot at night almost ever since she was born, and even better after she was a couple of months old. She wanted to sleep in until about 9 every morning. Unfortunately, Adora would wake up at about 7 and come into our room, and Salem would wake up. That wasn't that big of a deal in retrospect, at least compared to what we have gone through since then. The really big deal came when we moved. Being homeless for over three months, moving from place to place, sharing rooms with multiple people, etc. really killed her sleep habits. She started waking up several times at night and refusing to go back to sleep without being nursed. For the sake of the other people in the room, I had to give in and do that. Then, once we got to Minot, she just started waking up earlier and earlier. She now permanently shares a room with Salem. That's what living in an essentially 2-BR house will get you. It is impossible to sleep train her without waking up Adora. We have tried to put Adora in our room, but our walls are not insulated, we don't even have closet doors, and our room is RIGHT NEXT to Adora and Salem's. Salem now wakes up between 4:30 and 5:30 each morning and sometimes dozes for a little while before Adora wakes up around 6:30. Sometimes. We do keep wanting to try to sleep train again, putting Adora on the floor in our room for a week or so, but Salem has basically been sick and/or teething for the past 2 months, so we haven't even had a chance to do that.
Daylight savings time was a couple of days ago, right? I usually start prepping the kids about a week in advance to adjust to the time change. I will change their sleep times and mealtimes 10 minutes a day or so until they are more easily adjusted to the new time. It totally snuck up on me this time, though. I really thought it was the following weekend! So we had 0 days of prepping them to adjust to the new time. The silver lining in this was that we assumed that Salem would sleep 'til maybe 6:30 or so. She had been waking up at 5:30, so 6:30 seemed natural. Salem is apparently smarter than Daylight Savings, though. She had it all figured out. She woke up at 5:00 Sunday morning. That's right, 4:00 "real" time.
Thank goodness that I have a wonderful husband who, about 86% of the time, gets up with Salem when she wakes up in the morning, takes her to the couch to lay with her (because we have no other bed set up), and deals with her until Adora wakes up, sometimes even longer. Unfortunately, I still get woken up when she wakes up and sometimes can't go back to sleep because she is so noisy in the living room with him. Even when I can go back to sleep, I frequently wake up multiple times from her noises.
Tonight, she went to sleep at 7:10 and has woken up twice since then. It's 9:30. I had to put Adora to sleep in my bed because Salem was awake, and neither of them would've been able to go to sleep in the room together. Sometimes I feel like I am going to be one of those tortured people who dies from lack of sleep. What a horrible way to go.
Monday, February 27, 2012
5th tooth!
Salem got her 5th tooth today! Maybe that's why she woke up at 3:45 a. m. and didn't really want to go back to sleep. She has turned into such a poor sleeper. Sometimes, she will sleep through the night, but she will wake up very, very early. Think 4:15, for the day. She will be ready for a nap by 10:30, but I need a nap, too! So I have to put both girls down at the same time. So that is a struggle, since she will get very, very whiny.
I need to go wrap Adora's birthday presents!
I need to go wrap Adora's birthday presents!
Sunday, February 26, 2012
Adora's names for the new baby
As I was putting Salem to bed tonight, Jake decided to type a list of Adora's name choices for the new baby. She sat and told him names and specified whether they were boy names, girl names, or neutral names. Here is her list:
BOY Names
Peanut
Shoop
Eich (this is pronounced "H", but she wouldn't allow it to be spelled that way)
Jay
Preston
Teeth
Towickio
Girl Names
Angel
Love Baby
Love Everyone
Olivia
Tastes like Chicken
Ice Cream
Peg
Sweet Baby
Neutral Names
Gabe
Epley
Twickly
Eeo
BOY Names
Peanut
Shoop
Eich (this is pronounced "H", but she wouldn't allow it to be spelled that way)
Jay
Preston
Teeth
Towickio
Girl Names
Angel
Love Baby
Love Everyone
Olivia
Tastes like Chicken
Ice Cream
Peg
Sweet Baby
Neutral Names
Gabe
Epley
Twickly
Eeo
No Facebook
So, I gave up Facebook for Lent. Then I discovered I have to share my kids' cuteness somewhere. So I guess I should do it on the blog!
Adora wrote a prayer today. It goes something like this:
"Our Father,
Hail Mary,
Jesus loves me,
I love God.
I love Daddy."
It was really sweet. Salem still has only four teeth. She now has a black eye, too. She bumped her eyebrow into something in the kitchen, and it swelled up almost immediately.
I am pregnant! My official due date is 09/01/12, but I am estimating 09/10/12. Just because my babies like to come late.
We have been contacted by Lutheran Disaster Response. They are supposed to give us a list of the supplies we need to fix our house, then we buy the supplies, and then they fix it! That would be so awesome, and I hope it works out. We definitely need more room before this new baby comes.
Also, our house in WF almost sold, after almost 6 months on the market. The buyers backed out at the last minute. I guess you can do that almost scott-free in Texas. It was soooo disappointing. We are having another open house today, so we are praying for a miracle that someone will see it today and put an offer on it before our contract with our realtor expires toward the beginning of next month. If the contract expires, we are definitely not renewing it. We will either go with another realtor or put it up for lease or put it for sale or lease. If we do for sale or lease, then if it leases, we have to give the realtor $500, so that is one reason we may not do that.
Salem says thank you all the time now. She is much more polite than most kids even older than her. She also says "thank you" while signing please, to mean please. She says excuse me when she burps or passes gas.
Adora is getting harder and harder to handle. She whines nearly nonstop and throws huge fits when she doesn't get her way. I am going to talk to her pediatrician about it, but I doubt she will have any miracle cure. Her fourth birthday is coming up 03/01, and I am taking her on the train to Williston, ND, about two hours away (we will go 03/03, Saturday). We will sit in the observation car and go to the dining car for a snack (hopefully it will be open). Jake and Salem will meet us in Williston and take us to lunch, and then, hopefully, we will all go see The Lorax. I think she'll love this trip--I hope so. She is expecting a party, but we don't really know a lot of kids here, so we thought we'd do this Williston thing instead. She will have a ton of presents to open, so hopefully that will take the sting out of not having a party. I am also thinking of inviting a friend over to play and have cake and ice cream on her actual birthday.
Jacob and Adora are outside shoveling snow right now. We got our first big snowstorm of the winter last night. There are several inches of snow out there. Jake got the snowblower working, but he still has to do a lot of shoveling, too. After about an hour of whining, Adora finally got dressed to go outside, so she is out there helping him and playing in the snow. It looks really beautiful. The snow covers up all the lawns that are scraped bare from people gutting their houses after the flood.
Speaking of the flood, the valley is still somewhat of a disaster zone. Lots of people have FEMA trailers in their yards. They are living in them because their houses aren't liveable yet. They have started demolishing homes. They demolished one that is just one block away from us and one that backed up to the river. That's all I've noticed so far, but I don't have very good awareness of where all the houses used to be. There are flood lines and untouched homes everywhere as you get closer to the river. People are waiting to see if the government will buy their homes from them, and they don't want to put a lot of effort and money into fixing it up if it is going to get turned into a greenway. I don't blame them. There aren't enough contractors around to do the work anyway. We contacted a contractor almost two months ago to give us an estimate on our basement, and they still haven't gotten it to us.
I need to upload some pictures, so maybe next time I will have some of those to post.
Adora wrote a prayer today. It goes something like this:
"Our Father,
Hail Mary,
Jesus loves me,
I love God.
I love Daddy."
It was really sweet. Salem still has only four teeth. She now has a black eye, too. She bumped her eyebrow into something in the kitchen, and it swelled up almost immediately.
I am pregnant! My official due date is 09/01/12, but I am estimating 09/10/12. Just because my babies like to come late.
We have been contacted by Lutheran Disaster Response. They are supposed to give us a list of the supplies we need to fix our house, then we buy the supplies, and then they fix it! That would be so awesome, and I hope it works out. We definitely need more room before this new baby comes.
Also, our house in WF almost sold, after almost 6 months on the market. The buyers backed out at the last minute. I guess you can do that almost scott-free in Texas. It was soooo disappointing. We are having another open house today, so we are praying for a miracle that someone will see it today and put an offer on it before our contract with our realtor expires toward the beginning of next month. If the contract expires, we are definitely not renewing it. We will either go with another realtor or put it up for lease or put it for sale or lease. If we do for sale or lease, then if it leases, we have to give the realtor $500, so that is one reason we may not do that.
Salem says thank you all the time now. She is much more polite than most kids even older than her. She also says "thank you" while signing please, to mean please. She says excuse me when she burps or passes gas.
Adora is getting harder and harder to handle. She whines nearly nonstop and throws huge fits when she doesn't get her way. I am going to talk to her pediatrician about it, but I doubt she will have any miracle cure. Her fourth birthday is coming up 03/01, and I am taking her on the train to Williston, ND, about two hours away (we will go 03/03, Saturday). We will sit in the observation car and go to the dining car for a snack (hopefully it will be open). Jake and Salem will meet us in Williston and take us to lunch, and then, hopefully, we will all go see The Lorax. I think she'll love this trip--I hope so. She is expecting a party, but we don't really know a lot of kids here, so we thought we'd do this Williston thing instead. She will have a ton of presents to open, so hopefully that will take the sting out of not having a party. I am also thinking of inviting a friend over to play and have cake and ice cream on her actual birthday.
Jacob and Adora are outside shoveling snow right now. We got our first big snowstorm of the winter last night. There are several inches of snow out there. Jake got the snowblower working, but he still has to do a lot of shoveling, too. After about an hour of whining, Adora finally got dressed to go outside, so she is out there helping him and playing in the snow. It looks really beautiful. The snow covers up all the lawns that are scraped bare from people gutting their houses after the flood.
Speaking of the flood, the valley is still somewhat of a disaster zone. Lots of people have FEMA trailers in their yards. They are living in them because their houses aren't liveable yet. They have started demolishing homes. They demolished one that is just one block away from us and one that backed up to the river. That's all I've noticed so far, but I don't have very good awareness of where all the houses used to be. There are flood lines and untouched homes everywhere as you get closer to the river. People are waiting to see if the government will buy their homes from them, and they don't want to put a lot of effort and money into fixing it up if it is going to get turned into a greenway. I don't blame them. There aren't enough contractors around to do the work anyway. We contacted a contractor almost two months ago to give us an estimate on our basement, and they still haven't gotten it to us.
I need to upload some pictures, so maybe next time I will have some of those to post.
Sunday, January 15, 2012
Burp
Adora: An angel came to Mary, and he said, "Don't be afraid! You will have a son, and you will name him Jesus."
Melanie: How do you know that?
Adora: I heard it at church.
Melanie: At children's church? At I Am Special at Our Lady of Grace?
Adora: No, at St. John's. No one told it to me. Jesus just put it in my heart, and then I burped it up to my head, and then I burped it into the air.
Then, I asked her to repeat it, but I couldn't help laughing, so we had a giggle fit together. It was a sweet moment :)
Melanie: How do you know that?
Adora: I heard it at church.
Melanie: At children's church? At I Am Special at Our Lady of Grace?
Adora: No, at St. John's. No one told it to me. Jesus just put it in my heart, and then I burped it up to my head, and then I burped it into the air.
Then, I asked her to repeat it, but I couldn't help laughing, so we had a giggle fit together. It was a sweet moment :)
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